Picture this: You meet a man/woman and you two have a connection, you go on a few dates, lots of long phone calls and you text each other all day long (if allotted the time). A few days or weeks pass by you are still in the "Honeymoon stage" and things are flowing well. He or She is saying all the right things you want to hear and whispering sweet nothings in your ear. You start to get that feeling, that feeling of wanting to please that person and make them have an amazing experience with you. The feeling of wanting them to have an orgasmic experience as you watch in glory knowing that you're the one giving it to them. But is it too soon? Is it too soon to cook them a great meal or wine and dine them? To Cook up their favorite food with a touch of you and make their taste buds go crazy? I know what you were thinking, HA! Get your mind out of the gutter! I want to know is it too soon to treat them to that orgasmic food experience that most people dream of? How soon is too soon? After the first date? 2 or 3? Or what about making your first date a homemade lunch/dinner? Homemade doesn't mean you have to invite them into your home, even though most times that's the case. You can simply pack it up and enjoy it in the park.
You don't have to be a Chef, you can simply like to cook or be the type of person who loves taking romance to another level and want to wine and dine the person you are seeing. Even though I am all of the above I do it because I enjoy showing off my talents and hope to capture not only their taste buds but also their heart along the way. I am a sucker for love, I mean who doesn't love, love? I love to cook for a man and watch him eat my food and enjoy every bite of it, that right there is sooo SEXY to me! From appetizer, to entree all the way to dessert, I want him to salivate and savor each bite. I try to find out 'his' favorite foods in the beginning so that I can always store it in memory. I do this for all my friends too. I love feeding people and what’s better than tasting a better version of what was already your favorite dish? I use this method not only to have people taste my food but for the critiques also and to improve myself. A man will never know when I would surprise him with his favorite meal. The element of surprise just makes the moment so much greater. They say that "the way to a man’s heart is through his belly" well us woman love food too. So if you're a guy with some kitchen skills don't be afraid to show them off!
I personally think after getting to know a person and you are comfortable with them, whether it takes a few days, weeks or months it is perfectly fine to set up a nice romantic date and eat a delicious home cooked meal. Some may disagree and feel like that it's more of a personal experience and until a man/woman is actually their boyfriend/girlfriend or even more they wouldn't provide this experience. Well what if this is the gesture that sets the tone for how you're able to treat that person and opens their eyes to the amazing person you truly are? What if this meal leads to lifelong love and marriage? Food is many things. It is not only delightful and tasteful (hopefully), it is a conversation piece, it is a tool for flirting whether it’s a candle lit dinner or chocolate covered strawberries that you're feeding your partner. Food is magical and when you taste something amazing I promise it is a memory you will never forget.
Is this man or woman worth this exceptional experience? Would it be so bad to turn one of your dinner dates into a nice evening at your home with a home cooked meal? Or if the weather is nice, would it hurt to whip up a nice pasta salad, some fried or baked chicken, sautéed asparagus, your favorite dessert, fresh fruits and some wine, pack it in a basket and have a nice picnic in the park? Is there a time limit before this should happen? I mean really, how soon is too soon?
